Wednesday, October 8, 2014

Handling Crushes

Many times I have felt paralyzed when I have come across attractive guys and wanted to talk to them.

Once I get to know them, really know them, then I come to love them as friends and buddies. 

I once heard from a friend that the exotic is erotic. Various times I've talked to super attractive guys I've had crushes on and as I talked with them and found common ground I saw them less as objects of desire and more as brothers, buddies, and friends. Once their mysteriousness went away so did the crush and in most cases I ended up with a good solid friend in its place. 

Although Chris Evans will always be my man crush......what a man!

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